Monday, August 31, 2009
Friend Makin' Mondays
1. DO YOU COOK EVERY NIGHT?
Unfortunately, yes. I really don't like to, but if I must.
2. WHAT KIND OF LAUNDRY DETERGENT DO YOU USE & WHY?
I seriously had to go to my laundry room to find out the answer to this question..I use ALL. I don't really have a specific reason...maybe the packaging was pretty!
3. DO YOU DO LAUNDRY EVERYDAY OR LOADS AT A TIME?
I do laundry as needed. When I have enough for a load of colors, then I do them, etc.
4. HOW OFTEN DO YOU EAT OUT PER WEEK?
Well that varies, depends on what I'm out doing and if I'm out long enough. I'd say it's approximately 2x per week.
5. WHERE DO YOU USUALLY EAT OUT?
If it's fast food, then we do Taco Bell, Mcdonald's, KFC. If it's a restaurant, The Olive Garden, a really yummy mexican food restaurant called Valle Luna.
6. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE RETAIL STORE?
I guess that would be Target.
7. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DRINK?
That would be some tea with my sugar please. Reeeeaally sweet tea.
8. DO YOU TAKE VITAMINS? WHAT KIND?
I really don't like to take much of anything, but sometimes I take the sublingual (under the tongue) vitamin B-12 for energy metabolism....I'm tired an awful lot of the time.
9. WHAT PERCENTAGE OF THE HOUSEHOLD CHORES DO YOU DO?
I'd say about 70% or so of the inside chores...and my husband does about 50% of the outside chores...I don't know who's responsible for the other 50%.
10. DO YOUR CHILDREN DO CHORES?
Umm, yep. I'm not doing it for them. They make the mess, they clean it up. They are each responsible for their own rooms. Alyssa does the dishwasher and washes what can't go into the dish washer and she does the dusting part time....we both have bad allergies, so we split this task. And she also takes the garbage out. Taylor is responsible for cleaning the sink in the kids bathroom and for keeping the table in the kitchen washed. And Jayce washes the kitchen chairs and helps put away the cans and boxed goods after grocery shopping.
11. DO YOU GO TO CHURCH?
No.
12. DO YOU HAVE A HOUSEWORK SCHEDULE?
No. I clean it as it gets dirty. The only spot in my house that has stuff piled/not taken care of, would be my computer desk usually has a small stack of papers/books/whatever piled on it, and my scrapbook desk is kinda in a disarray also. Other than that, I don't like messes, so I keep it clean as we go.
13. DO YOU KEEP A WORKING BUDGET?
No. I don't have anything that keeps track of the budget. Most of the time try to spend as little as possible. Try to always "pay ourselves first" by putting into savings. We spend a little, save a little and pay the bills on time, so it works for me.
14. WHAT DO YOU DO AT NIGHT AS A FAMILY?
I guess we don't specify night at family time. By the time my husband gets home from work, it is time for the two youngest to get to bed and the oldest stays up for 1 hour more. Each night they say their goodnights' and then they take their books to their room and read (in Jayce's case, look at the pictures) until they feel they've done that enough, and then lights out. So it's pretty much, homework, eat dinner, baths, goodnight and reading. When it's not so hot we go for walks.
15. HOW DO YOU PREPARE YOURSELF FOR A NEW WEEK?
I celebrate! While some people dread mondays..I celebrate them. That's when everyone goes back to school/work, and I get some me time. LOVE IT!
16. WHAT DO YOUR MORNINGS LOOK LIKE?
They look early to me. You see, I am NOT a morning person, so I like to be able to sleep in, atleast until 8 a.m., that would be good enough for me. But..here's the reality of it. I get up at 6:50 a.m. to get my oldest off and going. She has to leave the house at 7:20 to catch the bus. So I make sure she's done everything she needs to do. When she leaves I get the youngest two up and going to get them off to the bus at 8 a.m. Once they leave, there's always something different that I'm doing...either off to run errands, or relaxing at home and blogging, or cleaning house, or visiting shortmama, or cursing at my exercise video while working out...the list goes on.
17. WHAT TIME DO GET UP IN THE MORNING?
I get up at 6:50 on weekdays/school days. And I can only hope to sleep in until 8 a.m. on the weekends. You see, my husband is an EARLY morning person. I. Hate. It...but atleast he's nice enough to try to go back to sleep so I can sleep in.
18. WHAT TIME DO YOU GO TO BED AT NIGHT?
Anywhere between 8 p.m. and 10 p.m. And then I lie there and read for a while before lights out.
19. HOW DO YOU MANAGE ALL OF THE PAPERWORK THAT FLOODS INTO YOUR HOUSEHOLD? (Bills, School Work, Magazines, Ads, etc.)
Well I have a bill holder on my computer desk to place all of the bills that seem to keep finding their way to us. School work, I look through their stuff, throw out their days work unless it's a memorable drawing, etc. and have them get started on their homework. Any school activity letters that get sent home, I mark the dates/events on my calendar and throw the papers out. I don't like clutter. Magazines I read through as soon as possible so I can get them thrown out too. Hmm, I'm starting to sound like a clean freak here...did I mention that I don't like clutter? I do have a filing system, and while it is set up pretty good, there is definately room for improvement, I'm just waiting on myself to buy a 4-drawer filing cabinet to replace the 2-drawer that isn't enough.
20. HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZED? (Calendar's, Chart's, etc.)
I mainly have everything on the calendar. My computer desk has an erasable white board attached to it...that's where my honey do list is located. And I have to say that my honey do pretty good at getting it done...well, most of the time anyways. No charts or anything like that. Just a do it and get it over with mind set. Cause' ya know if I let it go for too long, then it escapes to that far away distant place in my brain that says "what are you talking about, I don't remember that".
Friday, August 28, 2009
Family Funnies
Umm, naked here! I know I still look like my brother, but I've still gotta hide em!
But grandpa lets me pee outside at his house...
Sure Jayce, get off the couch and do something crazy like this out of the blue, no problem!
"He gets that from you Rose..that's all you"
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Vacation Dreams
So here are a few of the places I dream of going on vacation to...
The first place is Bora Bora
And where else do I want to go? I want to go to Atlantis in the Bahamas.
Again, another piece of heaven. I think I'd go clean hotel rooms just to live there.
And the third place that I like to dream about would be Jackson Hole, Wyoming.
This place just looks absolutely beautiful.
And then there is this place that I heard about and figured the kids would just absolutely love it..
This is a tree house hotel. It would be the tree house the kids never had all packed into a vacation adventure.
If I got the chance to do atleast one of these in my lifetime, then it would definately be Bora Bora. I'll just have to figure out a way to get a prescribed medicine for my tough husband so he will be a willing participant...
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
And Today..I Really Have Nothing
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Where has summer gone?
This is when my husband and I camped overnight on the boat.
I slept as snug as a bug in a rug.
I miss the serenity of being on the lake..
I miss taking the kids for walks in the woods while camping.
Front to back: Taylor, Alyssa, Siara
And Mr. Jayce learning how to fish..
And looking back on the boat and seeing the kids giddiness..
Oh yes, those were the days...
Monday, August 24, 2009
My Husband Drives Me Batty
So I get up in the morning and everything is just fine and normal. I'm up and dressed, the kids are up and dressed, breakfast is done and the kids are outside playing. So I start to clean up the kitchen. One of my husbands cowboy hats is sitting on the counter so I go to take it into my room. And what do I come upon when I get into my room? There's a freakin' bat flying around all over the place in there.
So I calmly, yet quickly, shut my bedroom door. I head out the front door and around to the back door, which leads into my bedroom. I open the back door and see the bat still flying around like crazy. So I close the door again and get into a better position instead of standing right in front of the door and right in the path of its exit. I open the door again and see the bat hanging on the recessed lighting in the hallway. It sees its exit and goes about its business.
So of course I have to call shortmama and tell her what happened.
My husband got home around noon and I met him out back to tell him about our visitor. My first words to him were "Guess what I had to chase out of the house this morning?". He said "a bat". I said "Yep, you must've talked with shortmama already". And he said yes. But then it took him a few more minutes to tell me that the bat was actually in the house this morning before he left. He said that he didn't know how I didn't wake up because he had all the lights on in the room and was trying to catch the dang thing...with two of his cowboy hats. Oh, to only have seen what he looked like while doing this.
But...he couldn't catch it...and he didn't want to be late meeting up with shormama's husband...in which shortmama's husband was still in deep slumber anyways at home and was late for their meeting by 1/2 hour...so he left the rabid bat in the bedroom with his wife whom he loves so dearly...and that's when the fight started...
Friday, August 21, 2009
What Will I Be When I Grow Up?
Let's start with what I have already done. I have been a sales associate/supervisor for a few different retail stores, such as Carter's Childrenswear, Docker's, Nine West, etc. I have been an emergency medical and fire dispatcher/supervisor, and for a short period of time was a volunteer EMT. I have been a police dispatcher. And then my career got put on hold when I had a high risk pregnancy with my last child, my son. So this is what started my stint as a stay-at-home mom.
I love how I got to watch my kids grow and didn't have to place them in someone else's care. For placing them in someone else's care I have learned can really piss a mom off. You know, like when the sitter isn't home when you arrive to drop your child off, but all her little kids are home and one of them offers to watch your baby for you. Right. Or when you go to pick up your child, obviously from a different sitter cause the last one didn't work out for some crazy reason, and when you arrive you find that your baby has just been given a hot bottle straight out of the microwave. Some people really should come with "I'm stooopid" tattooed on their forhead, save the rest of us the trouble.
Yet on the other hand I have missed the working world. I know, it may sound crazy to some. My friend shortmama says I'm crazy to think that way...but she says it's probably because I actually found a job that I loved. I guess I have to agree with her. I LOVED being an emergency dispatcher. Loved it...miss it.
So, my dilemma is that there are two career choices that I am seriously considering. But in order to do them, I feel my kids need to be a bit older. I would like to either go back to being an emergency dispatcher...or I would like to go to school to be a nurse. If I were to be a dispatcher then I would just have to sit tight for a few more years until the kids are older that way I don't have to worry about the hours that would be required of me. They would be more capable of taking care of themselves and my oldest would be in high school by then and would be able to help more. As for the nursing, I would atleast be able to start the schooling now, something to help fill the day now that all the kids are gone. I love to learn also, so that would be a benefit. But I don't know how interested I am in incurring a bunch of debt from school loans. This option would allow me to atleast be working toward my career option before I have to start working the hours of a nurse.
So this has been my internal conversation with myself for a while now...and it will probably continue to invade my thoughts for a while now until I decide to make a move.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
2 1/2 Hours Too Long
So here is a little taste of what the pics turned out like...




Other than the pictures, I spent the day helping out my great friend Melissa. She just moved back out here near me again after years of being away. So she is desperately trying to find a job in this bad economy...and I'm deseperately trying to help her get one so she doesn't have to move back to Tucson which seems a world away from me.
Ooh, and today I got to take a tour of our new fire station that's being built. I'm one of the board members of the department, which is great for the learning experience, yet public speaking scares the hell out of me. Great combination! Our current fire station looks like an airplane hanger. The new one is nice and spacey and I cannot wait to see it all finished.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
P!NK Concert Here We Come
So, what concerts have I been to before? Well, I've been to an Aerosmith concert. That was really cool...minus the boyfriend that followed my friend Jen and I there and tried to ruin it for us but it didn't really work. Let's just say he had some issues.
And I've been to a few concerts that had a variety of artists singing. Been to a few that were called "That Damn Show". Word from the wise...if you go with a group of friends and you split into two groups for a small amount of time...don't plan to meet at some big blow up thingy...it just may be taken down in the short amount of your time apart...and then you're screwed on where you were supposed to meet up.
I've also been to a Lollapalooza. That was also very interesting. Cyprus Hill was one of the artists there. Now while I can actually sing along to some of their songs...I don't smoke...anything...so it was kinda weird when they started throwing joints out into the crowd...and the people next to us were nice hippies I guess and were willing to share theirs with us...umm, no thanks. The other most memorable part of this concert was someone that I didn't know and still don't know got up on the stage and started to sing The Thong Song...and he was only wearing a thong...a skin colored thong...eewww. And he also decided to run through the crowd like this.
And of course there was the American Idols concert that I just recently took my girls to with one of their friends and a grandma. It was the first laid back concert I have ever been to..guess it had to be with kids there. Well, minus the sex act movements on the mic pole by Adam Lambert. Yep, you could just imagine the thoughts going through my mind when I heard my oldest daughter and her friend giggling through this...mmm hmm...chastity belt...grounded for life...keep your legs closed, it helps prevent stretch marks.....
So..can't wait to see what kind of an adventure this concert brings.
Monday, August 17, 2009
Whiskey Row
So..instead of the dentist my husband decided to still take the day off of work and we took a trip up north the Prescott instead. We had a nice drive up there, and it was a good 10 degrees cooler than home.
We had a nice time looking through the shops and laughing at the funny sayings on some of the signs for sale. We bought a few things...my man bought a new cowboy hat and I bought a picture of p!nk.
I believe that these may be the only pics like this that we ever get taken, as it costed us over $70 for the ones we purchased. Probably not though, because I really do like doing this. I get them taken every year at the state fair when I take my kids.
Once done with the pics we stopped for lunch and then hit DQ on the drive back home. Yum. I'm like a psycho hunting dog when it comes to spotting DQ's. HEY. DQ. STOP. TURN. NOW. NOW. NOW! AWW...GOT IT!
Friday, August 14, 2009
Pre-Teen Bra Machine
"Do you like my boobs?!"
My colorful marshmallow puff
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Holy Hippie..It's Raining!
Well last night was meet the teacher night for my youngest daughter Taylor. There wasn't anything spectacular that went on, just the teacher explaining what they do, etc. So I had Taylor give me a tour of her classroom, her desk, her cubby, etc. I figured these would be good times to introduce my children and their different personalities to go along with the different meet the teacher days.
Taylor has a very fitting nickname that I have handed to her: Gabby Grace. Oh yes, very fitting. She could talk for days. About anything. About nothing. I think I hear her in my sleep. Her mind is constantly going and she believes she has to speak everything she thinks.
As for Grace..she is completely not graceful. Very clumsy indeed. A few examples...while running away from a friend's dog at her house she bonked right into the wall, she was playing ball outside at this same friends house and she fell right onto deer antlers and it poked a small hole into her leg, she's been to the hospital for falling off her bike and banging up her cheek. Now those were some of the bigger incidents, but just in general she can just be walking and there will be absolutely nothing on the floor, and she will trip over her own two feet, slide on pea gravel and hit the ground, just pretty much falls on anything..or nothing at all.
As much as I don't want any of my kids to get hurt, she is definately the one that takes it the best. She heals really well, she doesn't freak out, and it only hurts for the first day and then she doesn't have any complaints even though she still looks like she should be really hurting. So good thing for high pain tolerance.
Taylor has many aspects to her personality, she is sensitive, she is happy-go-lucky, she is mostly laughing all of the time even if there's really nothing to laugh at, she cares about others, she is sneaky when it comes to wrongdoing, definately not the one that will do it in front of adults since she reaaallly gets upset when she gets into trouble, so she will quietly do/say something and then smile at you like she'd done nothing wrong. I believe that she is starting to pick up her older sister's pre-teen 'tude. She is the girly girl of the family.
Here are some of the many faces of Taylor:
Crazy hair day at school last year
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
That's my boy!
My little ethiopian
It's too cold for this Ranger ride
I'd like to give a quick thanks to the girls that have popped on over and left me comments. I surely would've responded back to you by now, but I am still in the learning process here and haven't actually had the time to sit down to learn about it all yet.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Goodbye Colorado
The baby shower was good and different at the same time. It's the first baby shower that I have ever been to where we ate first, and then Cassie opened her gifts for the baby boy, and then...we all went to the lake.
Mother/Daughter moment
Elaine and Cassie
My daughter Alyssa, niece Chantelle and daughter Taylor
The kids were the only crazy ones to get into the cold water!
My friend Charlene and I bunked together in the same room, and I tell you we were like little school girls all over again. I think part of it was due to our exhaustion. That and Charlene's ears were plugged up the whole time from the elevation change, so we all had to get used to her hearing a completely different conversation than what were we actually talking about. It was very amusing. I think while everyone else was completely exhausted and went directly to sleep, the kids included, Charlene and I were the only ones laying in bed (actually a palette on the floor, but let's just pretend it was a fluffy bed) and talking for a while more. We ended up laughing so hard we had a constant stream of tears running down our faces. Now I'd like to share with everyone what we were laughing about, but I really don't remember. I think it was delirious laughter that was telling us we needed some sleep.
Myself and Charlene, this was at Sonic on the way home
So we all had a very good trip. I would love to post a pic of my friend Alison that went with us, but she really hates having her pic taken, she literally got mad at me since I kept snapping some of her, of course, that still didn't stop me. Memories...Hellloooo!
Goodbye to Colorado.
The lovely view from Cassie and Shane's front porch
Goodbye to silly Shane and all the laughter and smiles he brings
Thursday, August 6, 2009
My Very First Post
Me and my (other) mother-in-law after the concert
I was previously married, but still claim my mother-in-law
We took a day trip to Bartlett Lake. We all love the lake and would live there if we could. Maybe not at that particular lake, but at a nice lake nonetheless. We even took our car sick dog along for the ride. She is a very sensitive dog, that's the nice way of saying wimpy.
Me and my honey
Jayce, Alyssa and Taylor
We took a trip to see where a Meteor Crater had crashed into the earth in Northern Arizona. It was neat to see, but not very budget friendly to pay to see a Huge Hole in the ground.
We took a drive to Jerome AZ. It is a little town on a hillside and it has a lot of artist shops selling a variety of many different things from paintings to jewelry, you can watch glass blowing, etc.
We took a drive to Montezuma Castle and Montezuma Well. Very historical trips we took here...though I can't really tell you that I paid much attention to the history side of these places. Montezuma Castle has Indian Ruins in the side of a mountain, and Montezuma Well is a large well that also has some Indian Ruins. It was very interesting to see, and it made me thankful to be living today instead of back then.
We took a trip to a lake in northern arizona with our friends Amanda and Levi and their kids Rhiannon and Layla to go crawdad fishing. It was a really good time, up until we had to pack up and leave early...our son Jayce gets migraine headaches and he got one that day, so we had to head back home.
All the kids and my honey in the background
Gotta love your friends! Amanda and Me
We filled in the rest of the summer visiting family and friends, going to the movies, etc. While browsing in the mall one day I found a wonderful (wonderfully hilarious) game to play with friends. It is called "Would You Rather...." I LOVE THIS GAME. Provides lots of good fun and tearful laughter.
Now as for tomorrow...my girls and I are off to a baby shower in lovely Colorado. What a trip that will be. There will be six people in my truck and three people in another vehicle, for an 8 hour drive. I may not want to come back. I haven't been to Colorado since childhood and I still hold very fond memories of the week that I was there.
So this is it for my first post (novel)..can't wait to report on my trip to Colorado once I'm back.